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In The Arena

Real Stories of Courage, Faith & Resilience

"The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena — whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood."
— Theodore Roosevelt

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Real Stories of Courage, Faith & Resilience

We are all
in the arena.

Every person carries a story worth remembering. Of trying, failing, getting back up. Of doing the thing that scared them. Of showing up when it would have been easier to watch from the stands.

This is a community for the ones who get in the arena — who believe they were fearfully and wonderfully made for something only they can do.

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Try & Fail Bravely
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Your Story Matters
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You Were Made for This
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Community Over Competition

Not Just Surviving.
Living Boldly.

That's the difference. That's the arena.

↓ Three stories to start. Yours could be next.

Real People.
Real Courage.

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The Old Well, UNC Chapel Hill

Faith · Dreams · Education

She Decided in 4th Grade. Then She Did It.

A little girl toured a college campus and made a quiet decision: that's where I'm going. Money was tight. The odds weren't obvious. She went anyway — and it changed everything for her family...

Europe

Courage · Adventure · Community

She Got the Job. Then She Brought Everyone With Her.

In college she landed a paid internship that sent her to Europe alone for a month. She loved it so much she went back the next year — and brought three friends. Then her sister. That's what the arena does: it opens doors you hold for others...

Richmond Virginia James River

Career · Identity · What's Next

26 Years In. And She's Still Figuring It Out.

She built a career most people would call a success. She also knows there's a next chapter forming — and she doesn't have it all mapped out yet. That uncertainty? That's an arena too. And she's stepping into it anyway...

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You don't need a perfect story. You need a true one. If you've tried, struggled, grown, or simply showed up — we want to hear it. Step into the arena and inspire someone else to do the same.

Thank you — your story has been received. We're honored you stepped in.

Carrie Gaston

"She lived it before she wrote it."

Still Finding
My Arena.

Honestly? My natural default is cheerleader. I love rooting for people — it brings me genuine joy. And I've had to learn, slowly and sometimes painfully, that cheering from the side isn't the same as stepping onto the floor.

A few years ago I started Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I was not the oldest in the room — there are women older than me who show up 4, 8, even 12 times a week and compete. I show up once, maybe twice if life allows. I have never competed. I just learn, practice what I've learned, and keep coming back. What I've discovered is that age almost doesn't matter on the mats — what matters is being a good partner. And something unexpected happens in that space: it's not just physical. There's a mental shift that's hard to explain until you feel it. Showing up to something uncomfortable — not mastering it, just returning to it — that is the arena.

But this community isn't about BJJ. It's about every arena — career crossroads, caregiving, starting over, stepping into faith, raising kids, chasing a dream at any age. I'm a wife, a mom of three, a daughter learning to care for aging parents, a 26-year career woman at her own crossroads right now. I'm in it with you, not above it.

We are all fearfully and wonderfully made for something. Let's find it — together.

— Carrie Gaston

26+
Years in Business
3
Kids in the Arena
Stories to Tell

Your Story
Deserves a
Stage.

In The Arena isn't just a place to read stories — it's a platform to tell them. Anyone who shares their story here could be invited to speak: at events, workshops, podcasts, or panels. Real people. Real voices. Real impact.

Carrie serves as curator and host — connecting storytellers with audiences who need to hear exactly what they've lived through.

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Community Speakers Bureau

Submit your story and you may be invited to share it live — at corporate events, churches, schools, or community gatherings. Your arena moment could unlock someone else's.

Book Carrie to Host or Speak

Need a facilitator, keynote speaker, or thought partner to bring the arena energy to your event or organization? Carrie brings 26+ years of leadership and a whole lot of heart.

Workshops & 1:1 Coaching

Career crossroads. Next-chapter decisions. Purpose-finding work. Let's get in the arena together and think it through.

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