About Carrie
Still Finding
My Arena.
Honestly? My natural default is cheerleader. I love rooting for people — it brings me genuine joy. And I've had to learn, slowly and sometimes painfully, that cheering from the side isn't the same as stepping onto the floor.
A few years ago I started Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. I was not the oldest in the room — there are women older than me who show up 4, 8, even 12 times a week and compete. I show up once, maybe twice if life allows. I have never competed. I just learn, practice what I've learned, and keep coming back. What I've discovered is that age almost doesn't matter on the mats — what matters is being a good partner. And something unexpected happens in that space: it's not just physical. There's a mental shift that's hard to explain until you feel it. Showing up to something uncomfortable — not mastering it, just returning to it — that is the arena.
But this community isn't about BJJ. It's about every arena — career crossroads, caregiving, starting over, stepping into faith, raising kids, chasing a dream at any age. I'm a wife, a mom of three, a daughter learning to care for aging parents, a 26-year career woman at her own crossroads right now. I'm in it with you, not above it.
We are all fearfully and wonderfully made for something. Let's find it — together.
— Carrie Gaston
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